Questions asked on the dating game
This can tell you how they really wish to live a life full of honesty and good or do wish to achieve a fortune or fame at any cost.
This allows you to glimpse into their personal preferences, there is no right or wrong answer here unless you have tattoos or body piercings that they cannot accept about you. This one can tell you a couple of things, first do they fall in and out of love easily and second are they afraid of commitment. This will tell you how they handle anger, stress, and what they use as a way to resolve it.
This is going to allow you to understand how they see people, do they get to know them first before passing judgement or are they quick to judge. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? This question is interesting; do they live life or just go through the motions? This will tell you if they are overly emotional or maybe they hold back their feelings some. What roles do love and affection play in your life? An interesting question but could show you an insight into their ideology and outlook on life. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
Dates can be either the most exciting or the most stomach-churning experience a person can have while trying to get to know someone.
This is going to allow you to know how important their family is to them. This can show you how they treat their friends and people that they care about. Think of the song “Live like you were dying” if you don’t know the song, look up the lyrics, it’s actually quite meaningful. What would you do if you were stranded on an island and there was nothing to eat? Call it Karma or the golden rule, the question is do they believe that you reap what you sew? Are they actively looking for love or is it a situation where life is good where I am right now but if love were to come along, I’m ready for it type thing. Things involving family and very close friends, effect people differently and leave certain issues with them emotionally, mentally, and on their soul. If we were to have kids what faith would you wish them to be raised in yours or mine (if you come from different faiths)?
A good way to find out if they believe in only what they can confirm with their senses (touch, vision, hear, taste, and smell).
Do they have a passion for reading, or was it in high school? How much time do you spend on social networking in a week?
Some people do some people don’t until they actually meet theirs. Even if they say they never had sex, there are other ways of contracting some of these diseases.
Maybe it’s Halloween, Thanksgiving or Christmas, be sure to ask why. Will just being there help or will you need something more. A glimpse at what they really think is important when it comes to luxuries or material items. What is the wackiest gift you have ever received or given someone? The willingness of an answer on this shows you they have some amount of trust in you.
This could be an insight into whether they are old fashioned or modern when it comes to working and who brings in the most money 23. If they were bored, commitment could be an issue, if it was better hours or better money or both, they are working to improve themselves. If you’re having a bad day, how can I cheer you up? This is another of those that will tell you if you want the same things or not. If you were stranded on an island and allowed one luxury item, what would it be? Some insight into things that matter to them as well as possible ideology.